Dr. Boyce Watkins: Your Greatest Investment Is Your Mate



http://www.vladtv.com - In this thought-provoking clip Dr. Boyce Watkins discusses why he wrote "Financial Lovemaking 101: Merging Assets With Your Partner in Ways That Feel Good." Throughout the advice guide the financial professor reveals valuable information about remaining financially stable throughout your relationships, because according to him, "the easiest way to go broke is to have a bunch of baby's mamas." "A lot of people will pick relationships based on things that really don't matter," proclaims Boyce Watkins as he points out the people who go for "swag" and "a**" when choosing a potential partner. He also delves into Chris Rock's legal battles with his estranged wife Malaak Compton-Rock. Though the two filed a prenup, the Sunset provision in the agreement caused it to expire after their 18th year of marriage. Now Malaak - who Chris filed for divorce from after nearly 20 years - is seeking at least a third of his $70 million dollar net worth along with alimony and child support. Dr. Boyce Watkins - who believes Chris Rock's views on marriage "have not been favorable" for years - feels that situations like theirs can be tricky, as the marriage debate leaves many people in limbo over what is deserved after one divorces from their spouse. At the end of the day, Boyce Watkins tells us like he tells his own daughters, "every date is a potential mate." He also feels people need to understand that "the greatest and most important investment you will make in your life is probably the decision of who you spend your life with. So do not take that decision lightly." Watch on as Dr. Boyce Watkins includes people's choice of friends into the equation and why your life should be your most protected asset in this VladTV exclusive.

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  1. Me and my man are both go getters. Our marriage will be love plus a business transaction. Making sure we both have enough on our own and then merging what we have together to make it even stronger. Our children will be a product of love and a symbol of prosperity, because the only way we are bringing children into this world is after he completes architecture school and begins his career, while I keep excelling in mine.
  2. The real title should be "Your Worst Investment Is Your Mate". Child support and Alimony will kill you.
  3. A third seems fair. With that much she doesn't need alimony. They both should support the kids.
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  5. Exactly! A man can't have a good family life if he gas many Baby Mommas especially when you/they/Blackman is Poor!

    Unless of course if The Loser! Leech! Parasite! Has a dumbass woman like my daughter!!!!

    Found out today that my daughter's Husband (which is questionable?) Stole my 12 yr old Genius Grandson Quinci aka QMANTHEGAMER (whom I talk about often? and the Inhumane trauma he had to endure by the Racist Judicial System of the US of KKK yea!) Yea he / Motherfucking DeWayne stole Qmans M3 Game? and took it to the Pawn Shop!!! Said because he got it for Christmas and only played with it twice? Pssst No Excuse SnakeAss **N **!!!

    1st of all this motherfucker shouldn't had been living in the apartment that my stupid daughter got for her 2 boys Quinci and his son, whose been a Bad Omen himself from time of birth due to his bad Genes from his father and Trick Ass How mother/grandmother Bridget! ( Oh how I just Hate the both of them and indifferent to my other grandson oops!)
    Actually Dwayne and his mammy Bridget are living in my daughter's apartment after he Stole Her $$$ for buying a House thru some program!!!

    Stole the money then stole her car and went All the way to New Hampshire from Georgia to bring his Other baby momma down here to Georgia at my stupid daughter's expense! Of course if Dwayne stole the money so that she could put her son's IN A house? Then it Affects Quinci whose not his son as well as hurt his own Bad seed Kid!

    Within less than a month that the Baby Momma comes to Georgia? They split up! He goes back to my stupid Fucking daughter, Quinci's mother even after calling her every hateful name in Social Media! Shortly after this motherfucker got a Brand new car and she still driving a Hoopty!
    Yea Quinci was under my Guardianship until the StagedCoup from the KKK Courts and now he lives and looks all poor!
    When Qman lived with me? He looked Clean Cut! Well Groomed! Like New Money! Now he looks dingy & dirty Pssst! Yet his offspring of 5 yrs old be wearing Authentic Air Jordan's? Fuck that Shit! Quinci comes 1st! He's the Prophet and the other /:his kid is like the damn Omen! A snsje just like his Pappy and always trying to cause harm to Quinci! (Able & Kane!) Biting! Hitting! (Quinci needs to bust his ass! but is too good sigh)
    Yea Anyways it pissed me off when I Confronted her about the Theft of the M3 that Qman wanted me to buy him today while at The Game Stop! The dumb Bitch got mad at the Qman. for telling me of the Pawning /Theft from her Loser Parasite man!!
    Omg she is putting this **N** Before Quinci and she Fucking pregnant with his 2nd child which she can damn near take care of the 2 she has already! She didn't need to have the 2nd kid let alone a 3rd? Pssst How fucking stupid can my daughter be! FuckingTrick! I gave No Intentions on having anything to do with her new baby! Damn near don't want shit to do with the 2nd kid, his offspring Word!

    I feel that Quinci is in Harms Way! He loves his mother tremendously! Yet she Shuns him in favor of Fucking Dwayne and Dwayne Jr(can't call his ass Dwayne but only Jr? why name him Dwayne if one can't call him that? Pssst I ain't never gotta call him anything! I'm Pro Quinci LOL!)
    Pssst when it comes to Men? My daughter goes to the bottom of the Barrel and get these fucking Losers! Dumb Idiot Ass Hoe! I disown her DumbAss Yea!!!!!
  6. nice advice
  7. I haven't even finished watching yet and I'm shocked at the commenters who put money before a mate.  Wow, yet another reason why our families are messed up.  Those who marry that need a pre-nup, should check your  judgment skills.  Yes, people misrepresent themselves all the time, but YOU need some checks and balances on who YOU choose.On child support:  I can't image anyone who CAN, who doesn't WANT to take care of their offspring -- that shyt is crazy.
  8. Relationships can fuck your shit up exponentially. It may not only be a g.f. or a spouse. It could be your own brother. Sometimes your FAMILY is your ENEMY who will take your ass to the cleaners.
  9. Everyone on here saying don't get married because of Alimony. Number 1 most black men do not pay alimony. You're letting celebrities dictate what you will and will not do. No one is talking about choosing a woman with morals. You're automatically going to the worst scenario possible which says more about you than anything else. That's just like me saying I don't want to get a driver license because the probability of me getting into an accident if great if I start driving.

    If women weren't having sex you'd all be on here advertising yourselves. 2Timothy 3:1-5 states "But know this, that in the last days+ critical times hard to deal with will be here. 2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, haughty, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, disloyal, 3 having no natural affection, not open to any agreement, slanderers, without self-control, fierce, without love of goodness, 4 betrayers, headstrong, puffed up with pride, lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God"

    You need to look at yourself and work on not being any of the above before you look for a mate and things will be turn out better.
  10. Women don't deserve the mans hard working money she have been working what they take this for
  11. Why does a man hard earning money have to go to his wife if he divorces her that don't make no sense she don't deserve anything not even a dime from me. I am only responsible for the child and if she needs child support she isn't qualified to take care if the child
  12. No one should get married. Especially, no one should get married in states where they have still have alimony.
  13. Why marry a Phat Black wig wearing or weave wearing cow when the milk is free .... Skeet and skedaddle
  14. A old Playa from the Himalayas once told me the worst investment a black man could make is marrying a black woman ! once again Boyce is Simpin
  15. Chris Rock's "I think I love My wife"
  16. facts, all facts!!!!
  17. All in on that alimony uhh.
    Yeah yeah she got you homie.
    til death but do your part, Unholy matrimony
  18. That's why I got myself a Hindu Indian woman
  19. Chris Rock said single & lonely or married & MISERBLE!   He said South African prez Nelson Mandela spent 25yrs in jail with no problem but got out and could NOT do 1 year of marriage.   He got divorce.
  20. That's a Lie! Your Greatest investment is YOU. You have to invest in yourself before you can invest in anything else!


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