When He's Not Investing In You, Avoid THIS MISTAKE (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)



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  1. I got Unsubscribed from your channel! YouTube!! Urgh
  2. Matty, I love you so much. Thanks for all you invest in us. I'm a Christian and I so wish the church did what you do. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
  3. wtf. why didn't I see this video last night before...... god
  4. I simply have stopped dating because men are not worth it any more. However, I still love your videos because I like your rational and regardless of what men are like I still want to be the best version of myself that I can be and I get a lot out of your videos! Thank you!
  5. HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
  6. Hi everyone
    I'm a 17 years old girl with zero experience in dating. Not because I've never had the opportunity but rather because I've never felt ready since I have conservative parents.
    Last summer I decided to change, I decided that I'm ready for a relationship but I used the wrong approach, always wanting a boyfriend even though I never gave myself the opportunity to get to know new people and being still quite shy. And because of that I struggled with my self esteem, but then I choose to change again I searched on the internet and I learnt that if I wanted to be loved I had to love myself first! I started to be more confident, more positive, warm and extrovert
    And I started to get attention, literally guys started to flirt with me, send me messages, I started to turn people's head.
    It's a new world for me, i'm an amateur so I'm still learning how to send signals and to decode guys' signals.
    This month in particular has been a crazy one for me, I got to know different guys but 2 are the most important.
    The first one is M, I got to know him in a party we started to talk as soon as I came there. He is funny, lovely and genuine. We danced together, he'd put music and ask my opinion, he'd look at me in a way that I can't remove from my mind. There is an episode also that I really liked I wanted to sit next to him in the chair but even though there was space he told me you can sit on my lap. At the end of the party he left his friends and walked me home, and then he told me on whatsapp that he had fun, and wanted to still stay out and that we can hang out another time maybe in a disco I told him that the next saturday I coudn't and after this chat he never wrote me again.
    The second guy is T, T is the one that had a huge impact on me. It was 11 pm, he drinked a bit and he was talking with a friend of mine, I went there to greet him and then T told me "if a complete stranger would ask you to let him do a karate move but he won't make you fall or hurt you, would you trust him?" I told him yes! And he did the move, and in a moment I saw myself hugging him tightly because I was afraid to fall and he, laughing at me. After this episode we were sitting all in a bench and a street seller asked us if we wanted to buy a rose; I jokingly said "come on, someone buy it for me" and the street seller said "come on buy this rose for this hot girl" and T said "if you think that this girl is hot you're out of your mind man" and I hit him in the head jokingly and laughing. After this episode he started teasing me, throwing water at me (because my friend said that I have big boobs lol) and I was having so much fun I was laughing and he was laughing. And then I was talking with a friend about a serious matter and I sat on the railing of the bench (idk if's clear ) and T was on the bench so we were back to back he started to push me with his back while I was talking with my friend, and then when him, my friend was getting tired and said let's go talk somewhere else T grabbed me by my hand and hugged me (It wasn't a warm hug rather something done jokingly) I told him "what are you doing" while laughing and he let me go in a quite aggressive way, I mean suddenly.
    But now I'm not sure of what to think, he said I was ugly but then he did those things and when he let me go in that way I'm not sure I felt kind of sad
     
    Sorry for any English mistakes and please help meeee
  7. I have Matthew's voice in my head lecturing me each time I encounter a situation that I dislike with a guy. I've always been an awful flirt and lacked the skills necessary to approach most situations, but his videos have changed my life. While I still am not where I want to be, I'm most certainly on my way thanks to Matthew :)
  8. Kind of run into a problem I'm sure is common and don't know how to handle. Guy I've been dating 2 weeks always looks at my text messages (just on the lock screen) and wanted to read this letter I got from a guy I haven't seen or talked to in a year (2 pages long, said how much he missed me, and some intimate things but we're great friends) and I let him read it, saying the letter is actually pretty funny. I don't care about the action of looking at my phone, but I'm worried about where the need stems from. If he's just curious about who my friends are that's okay. If he doesn't trust me (hasn't even asked me to be his girlfriend yet) then I feel kind of insulted and odd about it. He doesn't seem to have a lot of experience with girls, not sure if he just genuinely lacks common sense on privacy and boundaries or if he's paranoid. Should I bring it up and ask him about it? Worried it might get worse, but I am honest and don't have anything to hide from him (+don't want to hide anything from him) but I don't mind anyway. It's just not healthy for him I think, and it could like an addiction, constantly having to reassure himself I'm not interested in other guys. Could you maybe go over 1. Should I approach him about this? 2. How do I approach him about this 3. Differences between privacy and secrets in relationships. Thank you so much in advance, love your style :)
  9. If I have a specific question about a situation I'm in, how can I text matthew? Does he have an email address or something?
  10. Love the visuals, Great points!
  11. ARE YOU SINGLE??? hehe :)
  12. @mathew I would really like to connect with you regarding my relationship . Can you please let me know how can I get to share and ask for your precious advice.
    Waiting for your reply!!!
  13. i just recently found out about your videos and i am so thankful for people like you who ask questions and want to find answers.
    i would like to know which books (besides Rilke's) have changed you and the way you see people and the world.

    for anyone out there who needs a good read: you have to check Pema Chodron's The Places That Scare You.
  14. "Passive aggressive" JAJJAJAAJA
  15. 👴
  16. Fantastic, Matthew! So insightful. Your Anthropological observations are undeniable. They work. They truly do.
  17. Oh gosh.. makes you wonder how careful you have to be with some guys. Careful I mean watch what you say, what you text, how you do it... just not to scare them away or have them like you? I find this idea oddly disturbing. Women chasing men. Brrr...
  18. Wow...just wow!!! Matthew, your reply to genmusicofficial really amused me. You called her angry and passive aggressive. And yet, you wadded up her comment and threw it. You tell us to present the best version of ourselves, but you lambasted her for having an opinion.  You really missed the mark.  Kind of hypocritical, don't you think???
  19. I would like to know if you give tips and ideas even to guys ?


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